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<h1>Lettre à Cascador</h1>
<time>2017-01-19</time>
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  <p><a href="https://www.blog-libre.org/">Cascador</a>,</p>
<p>J’ai apprécié que tu pointes les contradictions dans <a href="/david/blog/2016/accompagner-enfant/">un texte</a> qui est justement là pour en garder la trace. Le témoignage d’un tiraillement que connais j’imagine chaque accompagnant qui se plonge dans les notions de risque et de vitesse. Encourager l’expérimentation lorsqu’elle n’est pas invalidante. Prendre le temps de pratiquer avant d’acquérir les concepts. Ces curseurs sont propres à chaque relation et évoluent dans le temps. Je pense aujourd’hui qu’un apprentissage itératif et bienveillant est davantage approprié. Je me trompe probablement et mon moi-dans-six-jours/mois/ans sera peut-être là pour lire ces lignes et sourire.</p>
<p>Le choix délibéré de le laisser trouver une place dans ce monde en limitant les (dés)orientations vient de la croyance qu’il pourrait trouver ainsi des chemins auxquels je n’avais pas pu songer. Pas forcément meilleurs mais qui lui sont propres avec un sentiment d’accomplissement personnel et/ou collectif.</p>
<p>Pour autant, je ne considère pas cela comme un espoir. Lorsque l’on prend le temps d’apprécier l’instant présent, je ne pense pas que l’on ait besoin de formuler des espérances. Mon seul espoir c’est que l’on soit bien ensemble là et maintenant. Se projeter au-delà n’apporte que de l’anxiété inutile vu le peu de contrôle que l’on a dessus. Ce monde est malade de ses propres projections erronées qu’il s’épuise à rattraper.</p>
<p>David</p>
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    <em>Ces <a href="/david/blog/2017/echanger-supprimer-rebondir/" title="Comprendre leur origine">correspondances</a> sont publiées hebdomadairement, vous pouvez y répondre de manière publique ou privée ou physique ou pas, de manière décentralisée sur votre espace ou directement ici. Vous pouvez aussi en demander le retrait sans aucune justification.</em>
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