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-
- <h1>
- <span><a id="jumper" href="#jumpto" title="Un peu perdu ?">?</a></span>
- Do the Right Thing (archive)
- <time>Pour la pérennité des contenus liés. Non-indexé, retrait sur simple email.</time>
- </h1>
- <section>
- <article>
- <h3><a href="http://timjwade.com/2018/08/06/do-the-right-thing.html">Source originale du contenu</a></h3>
- <p>Some years ago when I was living in an Ashram in rural Virginia, I met
- a wise, old man. I knew he was a wise, old man because he embodied
- certain stereotypes about wise, old men. First, he was a Gray-Bearded
- Yogi. Before this he was a New Yorker and a practicing Freudian
- Psychoanalyst. Sometimes he would say a lot of interesting and funny
- things, and at other times he would smile and nod and say nothing at
- all. I can’t remember if he ever stroked his beard.</p>
-
- <p>One day he said to me, “Asoka,” (the name under which I was going at
- the time). “Asoka,” he said, “do you know what is the single driving
- force behind all our desires, motives and actions?” I thought about
- this for some time. I had my own ideas but, knowing he was a Freudian,
- suspected that the answer was going to be something to do with the
- libido.</p>
-
- <p>“You probably suspect that the answer is going to be something to do
- with the libido,” he said. “But it’s not.” I listened patiently. “It’s
- the need … to be right.” I laughed. While I wasn’t totally surprised
- not to have got the right answer, this particular one for some reason
- blew me away. I wasn’t prepared. I had never framed human nature in
- those terms before.</p>
-
- <p>I wouldn’t expect anyone else to have the same reaction. I suspect
- others would find this to be either obvious, banal, or plainly wrong,
- and if this is you, I don’t intend to convince you otherwise (there
- might be a certain irony in trying to do so). What I want to do
- instead is document what became for me a personal manifesto, and a
- lens through which I began to look at the world. As a lens, you are
- free to pick it up, take a look through it, and ultimately discard it
- if you wish. But I rather like it a lot.</p>
-
- <p>What happened that day was really only the start of a long
- process. Eventually I would see that a preoccupation with being right
- was essentially an expression of power and that rectifying (from the
- Late Latin <em>rectificare</em> - to “make right”) was about exerting power
- over others. I would also see that this preoccupation had perhaps more
- to do with the appearance of being right, and that the cost of
- maintaining it would be in missed opportunities for learning. And I
- would also see that, while the rectification obsession was not a
- uniquely male problem, there seemed to be a general movement of
- rightness from that direction, and we would do well to examine that
- too.</p>
-
- <p>I was the principle subject of my examination, and it has become a
- goal to continue to examine and dismantle the ways in which I assert
- “rightness” in the world.</p>
-
- <h3 id="a-little-bit-about-myself">A little bit about myself</h3>
-
- <p>Allegedly I come from a long line of <em>know-it-alls</em>. Unsurprisingly,
- it’s a behavior that passes down the male side of my family. Of
- course, I don’t really believe this is a genetic disposition, and it’s
- easy to see how this might work.</p>
-
- <p>As a child I remember my family’s praising me for being ‘brainy’. They
- gave me constant positive feedback for being right. As long as I
- appeared to be right all the time I felt like I was winning. In
- actuality, though, I was losing. I learned to hide my ignorance of
- things so as never to appear wrong. I’ve spent most of my life missing
- answers to questions I didn’t ask. I became lazy, unconsciously
- thinking that my smarts would allow me to coast through life.</p>
-
- <p>Once I left School, and with it a culture principally concerned with
- measuring and rewarding rightness, I had a hard time knowing how to
- fit in or do well. It would take years of adjustments before I felt
- any kind of success. Whenever something became hard, I’d try something
- new, and I was always disappointed to find that opportunities were not
- handed to me simply because I was ‘smart’. When I didn’t get into the
- top colleges I applied to it devastated me. I would later drop out of
- a perfectly good college, get by on minimum wage jobs when I was lucky
- enough even to have one, fail to understand why I didn’t get any of
- the much better jobs I applied for.</p>
-
- <p>I stumbled upon a section in Richard Wiseman’s <em>59 Seconds: Think a
- Little, Change a Lot</em> that claimed that children who are praised for
- hard work will be more successful than those that are praised for
- correctness or cleverness (there is some research that supports
- this). It came as a small comfort to learn that I was not alone. More
- importantly, it planted in me a seed whose growth I continue to
- nurture today.</p>
-
- <p>I still don’t fully grasp the extent to which these early experiences
- have shaped my thinking and my behavior, but I have understood it well
- enough to have turned things around somewhat, applied myself, and have
- some awareness of my rectifying behavior, even if I can’t always
- anticipate it.</p>
-
- <p>It is one thing to intervene in your own actions toward others, to
- limit your own harmful behavior. It is quite another when dealing with
- the dynamics of a group of people all competing for rightness. What
- I’m especially interested in currently is the fact that I don’t
- believe I’ve ever seen such a high concentration of people who are
- utterly driven by the need to be right <em>all the time</em> as in the tech
- industry.</p>
-
- <p>Let’s look at some of the different ways that being right has manifest
- itself negatively in the workplace.</p>
-
- <h3 id="on-leadership-and-teamwork">On Leadership and Teamwork</h3>
-
- <p>There is a well-known meme about the experience of being a programmer,
- and it looks like this:</p>
-
- <p><img src="/assets/two-states.png" class="img-responsive" alt="The two states of every programmer"/></p>
-
- <p>There is some truth to this illustration of the polarization of
- feelings felt through coding. However, it is all too common for
- individuals to wholly identify with one or the other. On the one side
- we have our rock stars, our 10x developers and brogrammers. On the
- other we have people dogged by imposter syndrome. In reality, the two
- abstract states represent a continuous and exaggerated part of us
- all. Having said that, I believe that <em>everyone</em> is in the middle, but
- much closer to the second state than the first. All of us.</p>
-
- <p>In my personal experience I have felt a strong feeling of camaraderie
- when I’m working with people who all humbly admit they don’t <em>really</em>
- know what they’re doing. This qualification is important - nobody is
- saying they are truly incompetent, just that there are distinct limits
- to their knowledge and understanding. There is the sense that we don’t
- have all the answers, but we will nonetheless figure it out
- together. It promotes a culture of learning and teamwork. When
- everyone makes themselves vulnerable in this way great things can
- happen. The problem is that it only takes one asshole to fuck all that
- up.</p>
-
- <p>When a team loses its collective vulnerability as one person starts to
- exert rightness (and therefore power) downwards onto it, we lose all
- the positive effects I’ve listed above. I’ve seen people become
- competitive and sometimes downright hostile under these
- conditions. Ultimately it rewards the loudest individuals who can make
- the most convincing semblance of being right to their peers and
- stifles all other voices.</p>
-
- <p>This is commonly what we call “leadership”, and while I don’t want to
- suggest that leadership and teamwork are antagonistic to each other, I
- do want to suggest that a certain style of leadership, one concerned
- principally with correctness, is harmful to it. A good leader will
- make bold decisions, informed by their team, to move forward in some
- direction, even if sometimes that turns out to be the wrong one. It’s
- OK to acknowledge this and turn things around.</p>
-
- <h3 id="on-productivity">On Productivity</h3>
-
- <p>A preoccupation with being right can have a directly negative effect
- on productivity. One obvious way is what I will call refactoring
- hypnosis - a state wherein the programmer forgets the original intent
- of their refactoring efforts and continues to rework code into a more
- “right” state, often with no tangible benefit while risking
- breakages at every step.</p>
-
- <p>Style is another area that is particularly prone to pointless
- rectification. It is not unusual for developers to have a preference
- for a certain style in whatever language they are using. It is
- interesting that while opposing styles can seem utterly “wrong” to the
- developer it seems that this is the area of software development in
- which there are the fewest agreements over what we consider to be good
- or “right”. In Ruby there have been attempts to unify divergent
- opinion in the <a href="https://github.com/rubocop-hq/ruby-style-guide">Ruby Style Guide</a> but it has been known to go back
- and forth on some of its specifics (or merely to state that there are
- competing styles), and the fact that teams and communities eventually
- grow their own style guides (AirBnb, GitHub, thoughtbot, Seattle.rb)
- shows that perhaps the only thing we can agree on is that a codebase
- be consistent. Where it lacks consistency there lie opportunities to
- rectify, but this is almost always a bad idea if done for its own
- sake.</p>
-
- <p>Finally, being right simply isn’t agile. One of the core tenets of the
- Agile Manifesto is that while there is value in following a plan,
- there is more value in responding to change. This seems to suggest
- that our plans, while useful, will inevitably be wrong in crucial
- ways. An obsession with rightness will inevitably waste time -
- accepting that we will be wrong encourages us to move quickly, get
- feedback early on and iterate to build the right thing in the shortest
- time.</p>
-
- <h3 id="on-culture">On Culture</h3>
-
- <p>As I’ve asserted above, none of us <em>really</em> knows what we are doing
- (for different values of “really”), and indeed this sentiment has been
- commonly expressed even among some of the most experienced and
- celebrated engineers. I think that there is both humor and truth in
- this but, while I believe the sentiment is well-intentioned, words are
- important and can sometimes undermine what’s being expressed
- here. I’ve seen people I look up to utter something of the form, look,
- I wrote [some technology you’ve probably heard of], and I still do
- [something stupid/dumb] - what an idiot! This doesn’t reassure me at
- all. All I think is, wow, if you have such a negative opinion of
- yourself, I can’t imagine what you’d think of me.</p>
-
- <p>Perhaps instead of fostering a culture of self-chastisement we can
- celebrate our wrongness. We know that failure can sometimes come at
- great cost, but it’s almost always because of flaws in the systems we
- have in place. A good system will tolerate certain mistakes well, and
- simply not let us make other kinds of mistakes. A mistake really is a
- cause for celebration because it is also a learning, and celebrating
- creates an opportunity to share that learning with others while
- simultaneously destigmatizing its discovery. I am happy that my team
- has recently formalized this process as part of our weekly
- retrospectives - I would encourage everyone to do this.</p>
-
- <p>One of the most harmful ways I’ve seen the rectification obsession
- play out is in code reviews. The very medium of the code review
- (typically GitHub) is not well set up for managing feelings when
- providing close criticism of one’s work. We can exacerbate this with
- an obsession with being right, especially when there are multiple
- contenders in the conversation.</p>
-
- <p>I have been on teams where this obsession extends into code review to
- the point where, in order for one to get one’s code merged, a reviewer
- has to deem it “perfect”. Ironically, this seems less an indicator of
- high code quality in the codebase and more of the difficulty of ever
- making changes to the code subsequently. Having your work routinely
- nitpicked can be a gruelling experience - worse so when review take
- place in multiple timezones and discussions go back and forth over
- multiple days or even weeks. Personally, I’ve been much happier when
- the team’s standard for merging is “good enough”, encouraging
- iterative changes and follow up work for anything less crucial.</p>
-
- <p>It is hard to overstate the importance of language when looking at
- these interactions. There has been much talk recently about the use of
- the word “just” (as in “just do it this way”) in code review, and I am
- glad that this is undergoing scrutiny. It seems to suggest that not
- only is the recipient wrong, but deeply misguided - the “right” way is
- really quite simple. This serves to exert power in a humiliating way,
- one that minimizes our effort and intellect along the way. Of course,
- there are countless more ways that we can do harm through poorly
- chosen words, but I am glad that we have started to examine this.</p>
-
- <h3 id="on-mansplaining">On Mansplaining</h3>
-
- <p>It is telling to me that the standard introduction to any
- mansplanation, <em>well, actually….</em>, is almost the ultimate expression
- of rectification. It is appropriate that we have identified this
- behavior as an expression of masculine insecurity - the man uses sheer
- volume and insistence to counter a position he poorly
- understands. More innocent mansplanations still work in the same way -
- without contradicting a man may simply offer some explanation (I am
- right!), believing this to be helpful to the person whose ignorance he
- has assumed.</p>
-
- <p>I am aware that there could be some irony in trying to frame the whole
- of this phenomenon in terms of my manifesto, but it is not my
- intention to do so. It is rather that mansplaining reveals a great
- deal about the harm done and intentions behind rectifying behavior.</p>
-
- <h3 id="doing-the-right-thing">Doing the Right Thing</h3>
-
- <p>I do not want to suggest a feeling of smug superiority - just about every
- harmful behavior I have described above I have also engaged in at some
- point. I know I will continue to do so, too. But I want this to be
- better, and I want to work with people who are also committed to these
- goals.</p>
-
- <p>Looking back to the start of my journey, I have to question now the
- intent of the wise, old man in his original assertion about human
- behavior. Was this yet another example of some unsolicited advice from
- a person who exploited their maleness and seniority to add more weight
- to their pronouncements than perhaps they deserved? Is this all that
- wise, old men do? Almost certainly.</p>
-
- <p>As it turned out, I did not wholly embrace it as truth (none of the
- above makes any claims to social science or psychology), but neither
- rejected it wholesale. I discovered that while it may not be literally
- true, I might arrive at smaller truths by entertaining it as an idea
- (the contradiction is probably what made me laugh). I’m grateful that
- it was shared with me.</p>
-
- <p>That there is nothing <em>wrong</em> with <em>being right</em>. Rather, it is the
- <em>desire</em> to be right that colors our judgment, that leads us on the
- wrong path. Being right is also not the same thing as <em>doing the right
- thing</em>. And I want to focus my efforts now on this, while trying to
- free myself from the tyranny of being right.</p>
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